A Pilgrim's Journey: St. Valentine, Priest and Martyr

Monday, February 13, 2023

St. Valentine, Priest and Martyr

Tradition teaches us that St. Valentine, along with St. Marius, aided the Christian martyrs during the Claudian persecution. In addition to his other edicts against helping Christians, Claudius had also issued a decree forbidding marriage in an attempt to increase troops for his army, believing that single men made better soldiers than married men.

Valentine defied this decree and urged young couples to come to him in secret so that he could join them in the sacrament of matrimony. Eventually he was discovered by the Emperor, who promptly had Valentine arrested and brought before him. Because he was so impressed with the young priest, Claudius attempted to convert him to Roman paganism rather than execute him. However, Valentine held fast to his faith and in turn attempted to convert Claudius to Christianity, at which point the Emperor condemned him to death.

While in prison, St. Valentine was tended by the jailer, Asterius, and his blind daughter. The young woman was very kind to Valentine and brought him food and messages. They developed a friendship and toward the end of his imprisonment St. Valentine was able to convert both father and daughter to Christianity. Tradition has it that he also miraculously restored the sight of the jailer's daughter.

The night before his execution, the priest wrote a farewell message to the girl and signed it affectionately "From Your Valentine," a phrase that lives on even to today. He was executed on February 14th, 273 AD in Rome. The Martyrology says, "At Rome, on the Flaminian Way, the heavenly birthday of the blessed martyr Valentine, a priest. After performing many miraculous cures and giving much wise counsel he was beaten and beheaded under Claudius Caesar."

The church in which he is buried existed already in the fourth century and was the first sanctuary Roman pilgrims visited upon entering the Eternal City.

St. Valentine is the patron of engaged couples.

Almighty God, by whose grace and power thy Martyr Valentine was enabled to witness to the truth and to be faithful unto death: grant that we, who now remember him before thee, may likewise so bear witness unto thee in this world; that we may receive with him the crown of glory that fadeth not away; through Jesus Christ thy Son our Lord, who liveth and reigneth with thee, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, ever one God, world without end. Amen.

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Painting: "The Triumph of St. Valentine"

by Jean-Valentin Metzinger (1699-1759)

Meeting Pope St. John Paul II

In 1983 I was a newly-ordained priest. In November of that year, it was my privilege to be in Rome to take part in developing The Book of Divine Worship. During that time an invitation was extended to celebrate Mass with His Holiness, Pope John Paul II, in his private chapel. After we had said Mass, and in those few moments I had with the Holy Father, he told me that he remembered considering the request for my ordination, and he described how he came to an affirmative decision. For me, our brief conversation was an experience which will be treasured forever. At the conclusion of our time together, I asked him if I could take his blessing back to the people of my parish. His very simple words remain precious to me: "With all my heart, I bless you and your people." He then embraced me, and I knew that I was forever "home in my Father's house."